Monday 11 October 2010

Apparently, it's October...

...what the hell happened to the end of September (and the beginning of October). Must start paying attention.

7 comments:

Efrat said...

Oh no, no no no.
It's still September...

(I'm very anxious about October - on the 13th it's my birthday and I really don't like it.)

Nicole_Effulgent13 said...

Happy Birthday for the 13th. Why don't you like your birthday?

Efrat said...

Thanks.
It's just my fear of death - I'm not ill or something, just, well, unstable (as my psychiatrist would say.)
What do you do when you have to face your fears? (You don't have to answer that.)

Efrat said...

Anyway... let us speak of more pleasant times!

Do you like photography?

Nicole_Effulgent13 said...

What do I do when I have to face my fears? My reactions range from curling up into a fetal position to stoically standing up to my fear and poking it in its eyes. I try to sort out bad things according to how dangerous they are and how likely they are to occur, and then decide how much I need to fear them. If I decide something is pretty bad, I'll try to find a way to lessen the badness, but if this can't be done, I'll try to find a way to avoid the thing.

Of course I can't avoid death - but I'm doing my best to dodge the Grim Reaper for as long as I can. Obviously getting older means getting closer to death, but I've found that getting older has made me stronger (mentally and emotionally stronger - physically, I'm beginning to fall apart! :)

I like looking at photos, especially of people since I can observe them without staring. I don't tend to take many photos (I also don't own a modern camera or a modern mobile phone with a camera).

Efrat said...

You seem to be a very strong person - at least compared to me, and I appreciate/admire (argh, me English is bad) it.
I often just freak and don't know what to do when I have to face my fears, but now you gave me something to think about. So, thank you!

About the photography, I like looking at portraits too. If the picture is interesting it's even better - I prefer interesting to pretty, most of the time.
I do like taking pictures of people (but mostly I take pictures of cats). I upload my photos sometimes to a flickr account, would you like to see them? (I'm not trying to advertise myself or something, I've just taken some nice pictures yesterday and I'm enthusiastic)

Nicole_Effulgent13 said...

I still freak out at times, but with less frequency than I used to.

I love photos of cats (I have a cat - she's called Willow, after Willow from Buffy). If you're happy to put the link here on the comments then do so or you can email me (I've put an email on my profile page).